5 ways to say I LOVE U-without words!
Saying ‘I love You’ can be a major deal for some people. Especially for guys, not just boyfriends either. No, seriously, how often does your brother say those three leetle words? Most likely never, am I right?!
Getting in touch with their ’soft ‘n’ sensitive side’ is something the majority of human guys on earth (and even a few heavenly guys) do NOT want to go near. Not because they don’t have those feelings, they surely do, they’re just terrified they might look weak or worse ‘girly’. This can make it v. difficult for us gals who are deeply in touch with our hearts, but don’t want to alienate (scare off) the boys we adore, by coming right out and risking saying how we feel.
I’ve been thinking about this a LOT and lately I’ve been wondering if maybe us girls aren’t just a bit too hung-up on those ’sweet nothings.’ Think about it.
Unless you back them up with loving actions, words, even sweet dreamy romantic words, are just words right? Just saying you love someone is totally empty unless you back it up with hard action; for instance if you tell your boyfriend you love him, but then insist on playing silly little games where you blow hot ‘n’ cold all the time, isn’t actually going to make him feel very loved. Like Mel’s mum always says, the key to showing someone that you truly care is by making your love for them visible (Urgent note from Lola! This applies to EVERYONE you love, friends, parents, siblings, aunts, uncles, grandparents, carers, everyone!).
So here are my personal top 5 ways to say ‘I Love U’ without words.
1. BE SUPPORTIVE – There’s nothing like having your own dynamic cheerleader to help your loved ones feel good about themselves. Whether it’s football, or just every-day confidence building, actively support the people you care about, and encourage them to be their bestest selves.
2. BE NURTURING – Pamper your loved ones, by giving them facials or massages. Cook a lurvely treat for them (if you really want to spoil someone, try making Mel’s Millionaire’s Shortbread!).
3. BE INTERESTED – Doesn’t matter if you aren’t completely into the same things as your friends and loved ones - that totally doesn’t let you off the hoo; you can still make an effort to be interested in whatever activities your Boo enjoys (Yes, even if it’s fishing for frog spawn in a swamp!).
4. BE FUNNY – Some people are under the sad impression (thanks to the movies) that relationships have to be v. v. v. tempestuous, like a thrilling two person rollercoaster or whatever. This is simply NOT true. Forget drama, and go for humour everytime. Being able to have a laugh and kid around together is the key to having a good relationship with absolutely everyone you love. Never be too proud to play the fool.
5. And finally…LISTEN – A loved one who really listens to you is pure gold! Too many conversations nowadays consist of people waiting to say their piece and not paying the slightest attention to what you’re saying!
Obviously you VIPs would never be that insensitive, you understand that being genuinely interested in what your loved ones have to say, like really, REALLY taking it on board is a gift you can give them for free.
taken from www.agentangel.co.uk
